{"id":6830,"date":"2014-02-13T12:06:24","date_gmt":"2014-02-13T19:06:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/?p=6830"},"modified":"2024-02-14T04:05:45","modified_gmt":"2024-02-14T11:05:45","slug":"how-business-is-just-like-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/how-business-is-just-like-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How Business Is Just Like a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One is pleasure and the other is, well, business. In most cases, we make it a point to keep the world we live in with our partners at a safe distance from that of our profession. We lend a listening ear after a long day, but otherwise there\u2019s a distinct separation. Still, there are many similarities between maintaining a relationship and sustaining a business.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Courting<\/strong><br \/>\nWhile courting has changed over the years, it\u2019s still an integral part of starting a relationship \u2013 even if it does sound like a word the Victorians would use. Courting includes everything from seeing someone for the first time, to a first date, and getting and receiving gifts. It finally finishes when the relationship becomes \u201cofficial.\u201d Of course, it is an easy stage to mess up.<\/p>\n<p>This stage is equivalent to when you first think of a new business idea, and you can\u2019t help but think about it all the time, contemplating the possibilities it will offer. You realize that just thinking about it is a waste of time, you need to start getting things down on paper.<\/p>\n<p>At this stage it can all fall to pieces if you\u2019re not careful. Make sure you\u2019re certain before you commit \u2013 note the flaws in your idea rather than glossing over them. Remember, <a title=\"Things to remember when starting a business\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/things-to-remember-when-starting-a-business\/\">starting a business is a commitment<\/a>. If the idea won\u2019t hold your interest, your business will not succeed. <em>Is this really what you want?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>The Lovey Dovey Beginnings<\/strong><br \/>\nIn the first stage of your new relationship everything is roses and laughter, and you\u2019re already talking as though you\u2019ll be together forever. It\u2019s an incredibly enjoyable stage to be in, even if it does make all your friends feel a bit sick. While your relationship builds its foundation, the two of you may be overlooking the flaws that may leave you questioning the future.<\/p>\n<p>Business-wise, this is when you\u2019re at your most enthusiastic and positive. Things are starting to gain traction, plans and ideas are filling your mind and you\u2019ve got a feeling that this is going to be your big success. Unfortunately, this kind of thinking, can be blinding.<\/p>\n<p>Even when things seem perfect, you need to view everything critically. Rather than looking at a process and thinking, \u201cWow, everything is coming together!\u201d look at it and think, \u201c<a title=\"Less is More: Improving Your Small Business Site\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/less-is-more-improving-your-small-business-site\/\">Where is this process flawed?<\/a>\u201c To borrow a tired political phrase, you should fix the roof while the sun is shining.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Rough Patches<\/strong><br \/>\nFew, if any, relationships are without tough times. It\u2019s a given that people argue, and when it\u2019s with someone you spend a lot of time with it can be over something as simple as an unwashed plate. Other times, the relationship just seems to be on the rocks. The ones that survive are the ones who face these problems head on and get them sorted. If these issues are left to fester, they will always end up emerging later on as an even bigger problem.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, conflict with employees can instantly turn things sour \u2013 this is something that should be resolved quickly. Be sure to show empathy and that you\u2019re taking the complaint seriously. Invest some time in putting procedures in place for employee grievances, getting them fixed and also following up later on. Your workers should know they can always come to you if something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>There are also positive opportunities that come with the bumps. They give you a chance to learn for the future and improve your company. As long as everything doesn\u2019t fall apart, you\u2019ll be stronger on the other side. Make a conscious effort to get everything you can out of your problems.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6831\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcontent.yola.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/business-relationship-3.png\" alt=\"relating business too relationships rough patches\" width=\"545\" height=\"297\" \/><br \/>\n<strong>Although hard to envision, happily ever after is attainable<\/strong><br \/>\nWe can never be truly certain of what the future has to hold or where we\u2019ll end up. Businesses can fail and relationships can falter for the most unexpected of reasons.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, it could end up being everything you\u2019d ever imagined \u2013 just take a look at all of the success stories around us. There\u2019s the old couple, still in love after 50 years who have survived the ups and downs of marriage, and there\u2019s the Fortune 500 companies that started in a garage.<\/p>\n<p>Truth be told, we may not know what the future has to hold, but hard work and passion will always be a push in the right direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One is pleasure and the other is, well, business. In most cases, we make it a point to keep the world we live in with our partners at a safe distance from that of our profession. We lend a listening ear after a long day, but otherwise there\u2019s a distinct separation. Still, there are many&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/how-business-is-just-like-a-relationship\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How Business Is Just Like a Relationship<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","neve_meta_reading_time":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false},"categories":[130],"tags":[635,297,633,634],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6830"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9279,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6830\/revisions\/9279"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yola.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}